Life Changes

I now I have not updated my blog for awhile now but I have been extremely busy at home and work. The office is getting busier and busier everyday, I keep going in early and leaving later and later.

At home is even more stressing, I decided to invite my cousin and her daughter to live with me and my hubby, and a few months ago hubby decided he wanted his kids(ages 10 & 4) to come live with us. So I have gone to living practically alone to living with 3 kids. Lord give me strength.

Wht can I do thou, as I always say"Its Family" and we all do what we can to help each other out.

IMMIGRATION REFORM

In recent weeks the state of Arizona has made it known the lengths they will go to for there so called immigration reform and as much as I want to blame them for there stupidity, I cant because it is full time this country start discussing immigration reform and stop pushing it to the side. According to the US there are over eleven million illegal immigrants in the country (how exactly they came up with this number since they dont know who these people are, is simply proposterus).

I understand the main focus before was on the economy and the healthcare system and of course the war in Iraq, but Washington must be made to understand that finding and legalizing undocumented immigrants is a step towards they future for this country. There are millions of people out there some working (wanting to pay taxes but are afraid), some working and paying taxes(also scared of one day getting kicked out from the very county they have been paying taxes to.

The new law they are trying to pass in Arizona should open the eyes of the president, democrats and republicans alike to stop thinking about themselves and their political agendas and think about this country not only to protect the people that are here, (whether lawful or unlawful) and also find a way to keep out those that would do the country harm.

We as american cannot keep grouping all illegal immigrants together, there are kids that were brought here by there parents since they were babies and are only finding out when they graduated highschool and looking to go to college they they are illegal in this county. What are these children to do? They are highschool graduates, looking to become doctors or even lawyers, but they are stuck because most colleges will not accept them without the necessary documentation, nor will they find legitamate paying jobs that will allow them to work and go to school (since it is illegal to hire an undocumented worker).

I say the time for excuses is over, who cares that elections are in november, the time for immigration reform is now, not tomorrow, not nextweek, not next month, or next year, the time to bring forth an immigration plan to bring people out of the shadows, let them pay a fine for entering the country illegally, those without criminal records will step to the front of the line and get a shot at what they have been aiming for, a shot at the american dream.

DYING IS A BIG DILEMA

Dying is a big, big deal but I have experienced it with someone close to me, but with the passing of Michael Jackson it has really hit close to home that time is precious and very limited so you have to live each day to the fullest.

MISCOMMUNICATION

Micommunication is the biggest problem one can have in a relationship, you talk and talk and tlk and talk but no one listens it is really testing my patience. am at my wits end.

THE FUTURE

In high school teachers were always asking, where do you see yourself two years from now, and have never given that question much thought, but here I a now twenty five years old and I am trying to see the future but it keeps eludng me.

I have tried all my life to suceed I try not to think about the past, but to always look towards the future. I am always expecting the unexpected so now nothing surprises me very much.

I life you learn that with hard work, your blood sweat and tears you will suceed in life no matter how hard it is.

FRIDAYS

What is it that no one understands that on Friday's evenings after work my only thought is to laze out on my sofa in my underwear an just relax, not moving, not feeling , no thinking just wallowing in my self.

So this means no noise, no ringing phone, no complaining just me, myself and I spending some quiet alone time together. But does this happen? Nope it does not because no one understands the concept of me, me, me, me time.

So here I am at 10:26 on a friday night and I have yet to sit back and relax and as far as I can see there is no wallowing in my near future.

If anyone is out there please hear my cries. HELP. HELP. PLEASE HELP ME.

Saving Money in these hard times

I have come to the conclusion that I need to cut costs in my home and I have started with my cable package. I have the cable, internet and telephone in one but the more I think about I do not need a telephone in my house because I have the unlimited plan from sprint and I am at work all the time so I can use the internet there if I want to do something online.

So whoopie I just saved myself about $60 a month. In these times you have to cut the fat and that is exactly where my head is leading right now so if something does not make you money or have the potential to make you some extra income you need to leave it behind, now is the time to be selfish and frugal with "YOUR" money.